Thursday, April 9, 2015

All Within One Year and A New Educational Calling For Our Entire Family

It has been officially one year since our son's in-line of duty military motor vehicle accident occurred on April 5th. Our entire family has come so far to deal with this life-altering situation. Our Jacob has and will always be a fighter, but coping and dealing with a TBI has been very difficult. This condition is permanent- which will affect Jake's personal, professional and social skills for his entire lifetime. Jake is coping and everyday is gaining a stronger sense of the severity of his accident, as he broke close to 70% of his bones in his body and the realization that the TBI occurred from the initial impact of the accident causing the sheering action of his head and then the final blow to his right side of his head, which caused his helmet to crack and penetrate into his right frontal lobe of his skull.  

Jake was never suppose to live from this accident. We were told this by doctors in Texas that Jake had less than 25% chance of survival that he would even make it through first night. We were also told he would be vegetable for life and that he would never walk again either. Even some nurses in this trauma unit stated there was little hope for him as they work with patients like this all the time. These negative projections and ill-fated outcomes made Jeff and I fight even harder and stay more determined than ever to fight for our son Jacob in his state of unconsciousness, and get him the hell out of this Texas hospital. 

I look back to these accounts and verbal statements and would now like to prove to those doctors and nurses how very wrong they were. Yes- they may see many cases that the outcome is so dire, but to provide a false outlook which is now the complete opposite- makes me truly question the health profession in these types of situations. I believe these healthcare professionals need to be educated on the most current research on how the brain is constantly changing. And how one's environmental and physical conditions and factors contribute to one in an unconscious and conscious state can positively contribute to the outcome by a supportive and nurturing family, the physical touch of one's hand to another, the soft-spoken words and gentle kiss on the forehead to an individual to acknowledge that someone cares and is there for them every single day. The natural drug of human touch and kind words heals the body and its soul at such a profound rate- way beyond any medical drug- as we have lived through this and proven this with our miracle soldier Jacob Harm.

This week, Jake and my husband Jeff made the trip to Fort Riley, in Kansas where Jake will be honorably discharged from the US Army. They have completed an enormous amount of paperwork, met with a multitude of Army individuals and officials to get signatures to complete the discharge paperwork process, and sat through many sessions and round table discussions as closing activities. Yes it takes a week "to get out of the Army" and it is ridiculous. As the Army treats every soldier the same- they do not take into account Jake's physical disability of barely walking and his TBI condition.

Information and visual overload is the most critical factor that can set any TBI individual over the edge to cause dramatic irritation, onsets of excruciating headaches, confusion, and a state of anxiety. After the second full 10 hour day, Jeff laid into an Army official and stated that this closing out process for Jake is the most inappropriate practice for any person with a TBI. You see the Army
doesn't have a clue as they are just now starting to try to understand the wounded warriors that have suffered a TBI, so in return- they treat everyone the same- like no other- you are a number in their system.  

Jeff declined the final commitment on day 2 of 4 to attend a dinner in Jake's honor with the other retiree's, which would have put Jake at a 13 hour face-to-face day day with the Army. Why the decline- these types of social situations of mass amounts of people leads to a total state of a confusion for a TBI individual. TBI individuals are trying to constantly keep up with the conversation, but at times can not because their new processing speed and rate of their condition is 2-3 times slower and more at sometimes than your's and mine. This social interaction with mass amounts of people causes mental frustration, anxiety, undue levels of stress and emotional state of confusion, and a sense of entrapment. See, the Army does not get this-  yet 370,000 wounded warriors so far have suffered a TBI since 1995, and because of their very slow process and procedures of getting something done in the Army, they are just now starting to recognize that maybe we should address this. 

Once again all of our societal issues and problems result from communication breakdowns, lack of current research and educational practices of understanding, and the cumbersome and convoluted paperwork to complete a simple task. We see this in healthcare, we see this in the US Army, we see this in educational system- and we see this in our everyday world.  Communication is key and simple is better, especial when you are dealing with a TBI.

Jeff is working on trying to educate many Army personnel through discussions on the importance of TBI conditions with individuals this week in Fort Riley, Kansas- as they want to learn from us- as if we are their case study. Jeff has introduced many to the Rancho Los Amigos - Revised a scale of levels of cognitive functioning. http://www.neuroskills.com/resources/rancho-los-amigos-revised.php as the US Army individuals he is talking with now - were not even aware of it. We were introduced to the scale at the Bethesda TBI Hospital in Minnesota, but never at the Texas trauma one hospital- where we should have been. Jake is one out of 370,000 soldiers that has a TBI, and they are still trying to scratch the surface of understanding this condition in the US Army. 

Our family's calling now will be to educate the US Army, the healthcare system and our nation's educational system. As there is a dire need to help those that are not self-directed learners in their own field of study dealing with TBI and its condition. Our family is writing a survival book on our son the "Miracle Soldier Jacob Harm," to educate future families, doctors, nurses, teachers and the entire US Armed Forces on the importance of understanding what a TBI is, its life-long health, emotional and physical conditions, and how to interact and socialize appropriately with individuals that have suffered a TBI through the Rancho Los Amigos - Revised scale during and after year one, two three and so on.

Another chapter in our lives will be starting with year two of Jake's ongoing recovery of his physical impairments and his TBI wellness program. We are looking forward to the positive progress Jake will make and watch from the side as his parental guides-  as he reaches to attain his futuristic goals of going back to college and pursuing an educational degree of becoming a brain scientist and doctor someday. We also look forward to Jacob pursuing a future relationship with a very special person to be his companion and soul mate for life. And who knows, maybe someday, Jake will have a child of his own too. The possibilities are endless, as Jake now has a second chance on life and love again. 


You can continue to read Jake's health and progression updates on his dedicated Post Hope page found here: http://posthope.org/we-love-jake


Sunday, October 12, 2014

Taking "Time" To Learn and Apply New Technology Is A Lot Like Cooking, Cleaning and Exercising

The technology "Time" word and discussion continually comes up in many conversations, workshops, webinars and in services I provide nation wide. Many teachers seem to get "stuck in a rut" to find adequate time to apply new technology understandings and skills once introduced to them.  I at times have a hard time understanding this statement or reasoning when it is presented to me. If you are truly passionate about improving yourself professionally and want students to be more engaged with creative mobile learning strategies in the classroom, we make "Time" to make these meaningful connections of learning happen.

An analogy to put this all into perspective of "Taking Time" To Learn and Apply New Technology Is a Lot Like Cooking, Cleaning and Exercising" is a comparison of cleaning your house, or learning to cook a new
family entree, or finding time to exercise. If you do not make time to apply your new skills you have learned you will have nothing to show for it- with the exception of living in a dirty house, eating processed food/TV dinners, and ultimately becoming overweight. No body wants that! The same goes for  technology, if you do not use it- you lose it- and have nothing to show for it- end of story!

In my home, my husband and I make time everyday to clean a portion of our home- we love a clean home and it is the satisfaction of knowing that everything has its place. It should be the same philosophy with technology or learning anything new, take time to make time to see where it best has its place, where it fits into your curriculum, and then the satisfaction will come of knowing the technology does have its place of importance in your professional and personal life too!

At times I power clean in a frenzy for 15-20 minutes and then move on to my professional work. Even in 15-20 minutes of any cleaning- I get in a quick workout too, but it is amazing what you can accomplish to make things shine and get the satisfaction of a job well done to move onto the next task. Same can easily apply with technology, focus on a "technology frenzy of learning" for 15-20 minutes each week, and set the timer and stick to it. Focus on one or two items you want to improve upon a specific tech skill- this can be done through listening and watching to a 3-5 minute YouTube EDU or Teaching Channel video clip, and then practice and apply the new gained concept or skill. It also could be participating in an online after school tech webinar that personally and professionally interests you. Or you collaborate through a Google Doc of
adding a new tech share/resource each week with your colleagues, and state how it is used to enhance a lesson. If each teacher contributes to this Google Doc each week- just think of the wealth of resources of digital ideas to utilize in your classroom for the upcoming week. Or perhaps- making a point to meet up with a collaborative team of teacher friends before or after school at your local coffee shop to exchange 15-20 minutes of "tech brewing of ideas" to add to the positive culture change, creative conversations and positive mindset of making tech fun and rewarding in your classroom practices again.
Just remember, one needs to make time, time to prioritize, time to make it relevant to you, time to stick with the task at hand and time to document/reflect on the new learning so it has purpose. Some teachers keep a technology checklist or learning log as to make sure they prioritize their schedule to include 10-15 minutes of new learning each week. Then they check it off their list once applied in their classroom practice, shared their new learning in a 2 minute conversation with a teacher friend for feedback, and then reflects on their learning of how it has improved their instructional approach, engagement for students or collaboration between student conversations. 

I hope these examples will inspire you to make a new weekly effort to try a technology idea, app or resource to energize your instructional approach. To jump start your October efforts, I am including Innovative Educator Consulting's "Technology Bytes" free monthly enewsletter as a PDF. It is full of wonderful resources to immerse yourself in 5, 10 or 15 minutes of new technology learning this week. ENJOY!

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Another Chapter In Our LIves- And I Am Questioning Why?

Greetings Edtech Leaders,

I am blogging tonight as I am traveling to Saskatoon, Canada and I have a story to tell, and hope you can bare with me. I have a scheduled technology keynote on Friday, Aprill 11th and a full day planned of hands-on workshops with some of the most inspirational teacher leaders, administrators and library media specialists in all of Canada. This journey has been in the works for over 18 months, to plan and prepare for this engaging technology event. But at the same time my family journey has taken a different route and the recent occurances have not been planned so well, and to prepare us for the next chapter in our lives. 

We received a call on Saturday evening that our 18 year old son who is in the US Army was in a severe motorcycle accident. This was the most heart-wrenching call a mother and father could receive- and at the same time we received this from our new daughter-in-law, Heather, of only 10 months. She was overwhelmed by what was about to take place and the new direction that this accident would now change their lives for their future. *Jake was just stationed with the US Army in El Paso, TX after his basic training and AIT training from summer of 2014. 

Our Jacob suffered sever and intense trauma to his entire body- almost every bone is broken in his body, and he has sustained a brain injury. Yes, he was wearing his helmet and full suited with his US Army required clothing/gear, but nothing could prepare and protect his body for this type of beating. I am not going to go into the detail as you can only imagine, but I ask for your prayers and reflective thoughts to support Jacob and Heather and our entire family during these trying times. 

It has been four days since this event as occurred and we were advised to find a healthy family and work balance to continue on to maintain our health and strength for Jacob and Heather. It seems implausible to do such a thing, but Jeff and I run our own technology company where we have to continue to run the business to pay the bills. I was committed to a major event in Saskatoon, Canada from April 10-12 as being the technology keynote speaker and workshop presenter, and this was the normalcy we were told to follow through on to keep a routine up to support our kids and find a healthy work and family balance. I am committed to provide the best professional development for my Canadian teacher friends and will stay true to my commitment.  Jeff is staying back with Heather to help guide, support and make the critical decisions needed and necessary for Jacob's well being.  

No one ever expects that a life threatening accident would occur in one's family. How does one prepare? How does one find balance? How does one not feel guilty leaving their child behind to go to work?

I am so very thankful to Tim Nielsen, our main EdTech consultant for our company.  He picked up the scheduled trainings that were planned, without missing a beat. He stepped up in high gear to take the lead on finalizing our May events and June summer Tech Splash events. Without him, it would have not have been possible to continue to run our business- Jeff and I are forever grateful.  

As soon as I am done in Canada, I will be flying back to TX to join my husband, Heather and her mom in caring for Jacob mentally as his body and brain heals. He still has not woken up from his accident, but they have him heavily sedated to eleviate the pain and to reduce any kind of pressure to his precious brain.  We will not know what his final physical condition will be until he wakes up- and we pray to god he does wake up. The brain scanning monitor shows that he has good brain movement and there is possibility that he can hear us.  

We are only thinking positive thoughts for him and Heather, and can't wait until the day he can come home so we can care for him in Minnesota. In the mean time many of you have reached out to me and Jeff and have asked what can you do- we have since set up a supportive "Project Hope" website to keep all of you in the loop of Jacob's progress. Heather will be incurring many expences with travel /food cost traveling to and from the hospital daily. There will also be additional family hotel and airline/travel expences, so we have set up a donations portal on the Project Hope website for this purpose if you feel inclined to support our families immediate and future needs with Jacob. The website is located here: http://posthope.org/we-love-jake

Thank you for your time and effort to read my blog post today, and to support our family through prayers and kind thoughts during this very trying situation.




Wednesday, April 2, 2014

A Teacher Wears Many Hats- But A "Vendor" Title Is Not One Of Them!

Greetings Edtech World,

It was recently brought to my attention from a Minnesota administrator- that another Minnesota school district was inquiring to find out more information about me, my company and my credibility as a presenter. I am glad individuals are seeking out this needed information to do their research on the front end, and bring in the most
influential and inspiring presenter to make a learning impact with their staff. But I later found out one individual responded to the original Google+ post online and noted he did not know much about me, but noted he met me at the MN Google Summit, and interacted with me online though a few Google Hangouts, but viewed me as a "vendor' since I was not "stationed" in a k-12 school. It saddens me to note that some educators view a successful edtech business woman as a "vendor" from their perspective. The online quote from this individual noting, "I met her at the Minnesota Google Summit this past spring and wanted to write her off as a vendor for not being connected with a school." This quote appears as if a woman owned edtech company was frowned upon or looked down upon because I was not in a classroom setting. Yet he does not know my whole story and the capabilities that I have and offer- as I was not there selling anything- I was providing professional development expertise and provided my service for free at this event. 

According to Wikipedia- vendor, or a supplier, in a supply chain is an enterprise that contributes goods or services in a supply chain. Generally, a supply chain vendor manufactures inventory/stock items and sells them to the next link in the chain. Today, the terms refers to a supplier of any good or service.

The word "vendor" apparently can be taken out of context and be utilized in a negative way even though it is meant to positive. The quote I noted in the above paragraph of "I met her at the Minnesota Google Summit this past spring and wanted to write her off as a vendor for not being connected with a school" left me feeling that my unselfish ways of sharing of my expertise and bountiful resources at this event was not appreciated or even accepted. It is amazing how one person can have so much influence- whether negative or positive on another individual with sharing a small piece of misguided information. *Now if he would have only "Googled" my name - he would have gotten the big picture, the whole story- the missing puzzle piece to understand that I am not a "vendor."

Hmmmmm.... this made me really take a step back and look differently at this situation and reflect on this particular incident. In all of my F2F and online presentations, I almost always introduce myself as an educator first and foremost before any of the titles, certifications or years of teaching experience. At times, I even begin my workshops and bypass my intro and truly focus on my audience member intro's to get to know them more professionally, and then usually after an hour or so- an attendee will ask...."and what is your name again and I want to visit or land a job in your school where you instruct." You see, I truly live and breath the life of an educator. It is not about me as a "vendor" it is about the educators I serve to provide them the best possible professional development experiences to improve their instructional practices and approaches to enhance teaching and learning.  Yes, I DO have a dream job as an educator, even though I am not "stationed" behind 4 walls within a physical classroom setting and do not have 25+ students in my classroom.

My job is PASSION - DRIVEN- it is not "vendor" driven. I stay up-to-date and relevant with current trends, research, and best practices in K-20 education. I spend an exorbitant about of time each week researching, reading, designing, creating and publishing original works to share and collaborate with others to extend their and my personal and professional learning. An additional 10-15 hours a week I spend networking, connecting and cultivating relationships with k-20 educators and administrators through social media streams to solve problems, find new solutions or create new edtech work flows to increase productivity and efficiency of a school's professional development learning initiative and communication practices.

The best part of my job is I meet with students and teachers on a regular basis and ask them and discuss with them how they learn best. I dig
deeper into the inquiry process and continue to ask them what would they like to change in their educational work space to create a better, safer and more conducive learning environment. And then I try my best to make the magic happen with finding funding resources, or connecting or bringing in experts in virtually to provide new inspirational insights to support their practices of change, or empowering the teachers and students to step-up, take the risk and activate the change they are seeking for improved classroom learning experiences. 

Then as I continue on with my "normal 60+ hour work week" as many educator's do,  I provide inspirational professional development to schools throughout the Nation and Internationally- whether it is onsite or through Adobe Connect or Google Hangouts as webinars. I wear many hats in my job- as most educators do, as I am also a technology coach, a Google Certified Teacher, a National Intel Senior Trainer, and a 1:1 mobile learning specialist.

My job is to empower teachers and administrators with motivating and engaging best instructional practices- to improve their teaching and administrative performances in their k-12 teaching and learning environments- to ultimately impact student achievement for each and every child in their district. 



My name is Naomi Harm, I am a very proud and respected educator, I am a mother, I am a first time grand-mother, I am the CEO of Innovative Educator Consulting Corporation, a first generation woman owned business entrepreneur- and proud of it! I am not a vendor.